Should you be a tougher boss?
- Gabor Holch

- 3 days ago
- 1 min read
As economic and geopolitical pressure rises, some leaders I coach wonder whether empathy is becoming a luxury...
“Am I a loser because I cannot pressure people to work harder for the same (or work for less) money?”
“Should I apply pressure and fear to scare people into better performance?”
“If competition is war, and business is about survival, should I act like a military commander?”
Such dilemmas are amplified by global projects and markets, where geographic and cultural gaps separate colleagues and clients. So here are some points to guide the choice of leadership styles that sustainably deliver results—with high impact but without collective burnout.
Yes, critical times call for more dominant leadership behaviours: above all, people want to feel safe.
Yes, hesitation over tough decisions is a waste of time, resources and motivation: zero risk = zero action.
Yes, decisiveness is a core characteristic of a role-model leader: people can only follow clear directions.
…but…
No, top-down leadership isn’t sustainable: decisive leaders also know when to end crisis mode.
No, fear is not a lasting motivator: teams who perform under pressure relax when the boss isn’t there.
No, you don’t want your team to learn a top-down style: teams of mini-bosses usually fail.
A leader's job is to absorb and transform outside pressure, not to distribute it evenly among team members and clients.
To train your leadership team in constructive ways to perform under pressure, message me about my Top Team Culture workshop: send a sentence about your team’s main challenge and why it’s urgent to improve: https://www.eastwestleadership.com/#contact




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